Tag:consent

The Secret World of Japanese Rope Art

In a dim Tokyo studio, under soft amber lights, a length of rough hemp rope slides slowly across bare skin. The room is silent...

The Nun Who Challenged A Bishop And Paid

When a nun in India bravely stepped forward in 2018 to accuse a sitting Catholic bishop of raping her repeatedly, the country’s national conversation...

How #MeToo Exposed Males’ Harassment Across Asia

When #MeToo arrived in Asia after October 2017, it did not land as a single movement so much as a series of aftershocks. The...

Defining ‘Consent’: A Turning Point for Sexual Justice?

If you search “Hong Kong sexual offences law reform” right now, you won’t just find legal jargon: you’ll find a city grappling with how...

Why Marital Rape Is Still Not a Crime in India

India’s unresolved battle with marital rape — the act of a husband forcing sex on his wife without her consent — is again thrust...

Leavers: Pack, Use, Test

As the sun dips low over Western Australia’s south-west coast and the sand dunes of Dunsborough beckon, thousands of Year 12 students are gearing...

Statutory Rape or Shared Blame?

In the predominantly conservative state of Kelantan, Malaysia, a fresh debate has ignited over how the law should treat consensual sexual activity between minors—a...
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Millions of Parents Turn to Apps to Marry Off Kids

February 27, 2026

Oh darling, of course the parents downloaded the app. You really thought the generation that survived ration coupons, housing reforms, exam wars, property bubbles, and the one-child policy was going to sit quietly while their precious only son announces he’s “focusing on himself”? Please. These aunties did not endure thirty years of sacrifice for their family tree to end in a one-bedroom rental with a houseplant named Kevin. Let’s be honest: this isn’t about romance. It’s about security, face, continuity, and the deeply rooted belief that adulthood equals marriage. For...
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Lesbians vs. Trans Women: When Minorities Fight

February 27, 2026

Ah, sisters. We have this extraordinary, almost Olympic-level ability to divide ourselves and fight the wrong battles while the house is literally on fire. Look around the world. Women’s bodily autonomy is being rolled back. LGBTQ people are criminalised from Kampala to Kuala Lumpur. Authoritarian governments are policing classrooms, bedrooms, and wombs. Economic inequality is widening. Domestic violence shelters are underfunded. Online misogyny is algorithmically turbocharged. And yet here we are — sharpening our claws for each other. I’m not saying these questions about sex, gender, identity, and lesbian space...
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Family WhatsApp Groups Are Watching Us

February 26, 2026

Let me tell you something about family WhatsApp groups, darlings. They are not innocent. They are not “just for updates.” They are mini-parliaments, surveillance hubs, emotional labor factories, and occasionally — digital crime scenes. I belong to several. Of course I do. Big Asian family, remember? Aunties, uncles, cousins, nieces, the whole orchestra. Every morning: flowers, blessings, good-morning GIFs that sparkle like they were designed in 2003. And who sends them? The women. Always the women. Because apparently even in cyberspace, it’s our job to keep the peace, keep the...
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A Day in The Life of a Patpong Girl

February 26, 2026

I have walked through Patpong more times than I can count — in heels, in flats, in righteous feminist anger, and occasionally just in anthropological curiosity. And let me tell you something: if you think a “Patpong girl” is a fantasy character invented for lonely men on holiday, you have understood absolutely nothing. She is a migrant worker. She is a remittance machine. She is an informal economist with better negotiation skills than half the men in Bangkok’s financial district. When people say “bar girl,” I always want to ask:...
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Club Bosses: Asia’s Nightlife Queens

February 25, 2026

I have a soft spot for women who own the night. Over the years — from Manila’s humid backstreets to Bangkok’s neon arteries and Jakarta’s stubbornly defiant dance floors — I’ve met many of them. Some became sources. Some became drinking buddies after closing time. A few became lifetime friends. And let me tell you something: these women are among the toughest people I know. You don’t survive decades in clubs and discos by being delicate. You survive because you can read a room in three seconds flat. Because you...
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